Teen Gothic

As someone in the community, I know about the fetishization that happens to fems/women in the community and it’s ABSOLUTELY disgusting. It’s sad that this happens so often that it’s inspiring memes. But it has never happened to me except on Reddit when I was still a teenager. The last few years it has never happened to me. I don’t know why. I DO NOT want it to happen, I’m just confused. Could be because my style is not the typical goth style. I feel a little left out in some discussions because I can’t relate. But I still do my best to defend fems/women from weirdos.