Teen Gothic

Online discussions don't seem to be enough for me, I really need some irl friends who are also gothic. I live near some key areas – Leeds, Nottingham, etc. but not near enough. I can't travel outside of my small village (completely infested with kids on bikes mocking you) because I'm young and don't really have the money. If I go to gigs it's so much hassle – parental permission, making sure I fit the age restrictions and then actually getting the tickets and all. There's so many goth nights but I can't attend any of them. In my school there aren't really any alternative people, the few existing i can never talk to. If I can't travel or go to gigs, what are my hopes and how do I find people? Do I put up a poster or what? I just want to feel at home finally lol