Teen Gothic

I know this sounds stupid and feel free to downvote or remove if you don’t like this post. I need to start by saying I am fully aware that goth is mainly about the music. However, I am just curious do any of you just listen to the music and do nothing else. I want to go to an event but I feel like I won’t know how to carry myself at one. I really like the music and would love to meet people who like this music , however, I like so many other stuff so I can’t really call myself goth though. Ok… I am rambling at this point. Anyone just in it for the music? Anyone relate to anything else I said? Any different experiences? Any questions, comments, suggestions welcome!

Edit: I realized I was very vague when I said other stuff but by other stuff I mean other genres of music( fun fact: I got into goth through metal…it’s complicated)