Teen Gothic

Whenever I go on a website like Omegle or discord or something like that and I try to talk to other goth dudes, 99% of the time their not goth but their always in the goth tags and stuff like that (and I’m not just assuming their not goth the’ll explicitly say their not ) I get like 1 or 2 ppl but why so many? Also why is it always dudes?

Anyone in Baden-Württemberg who'd want to gather around? I got few friends so I figured Id try to meet people.