Teen Gothic

I work at an walk in barbershop, and we have an established clientbase which includes lots of students. Today i read from an anonymous forum type thing in my country discussing about barbershps in the area, and some people were referring to me in a very mean way and commenting about my style. They said stuff like luckily someone else did their service beside me. I'm a young woman and fresh to the industry, and most of the clients are a few years older men. I always treat my clients politely and always do my best, so i found this very discouraging and this made me very sad as i had thought my workplace was a safe space. I just mainly wanted to vent and maybe get some thoughts on this.

Next step: patches once I decide on a theme

I love the intensity of songs like in the flat field, dark entries, and even fun (but intense) songs like st vitus dance. Are there any other bands that share this vibe? Is there a sub genre that gives that more intense vibe? I tend to lean more towards that rather than bands like the cure. There was a post similar to this a while ago but it specified for modern bands. I am hoping for some older bands, 80s & 90s. Please give suggestions.

Goth isn't White, it's for anyone who wants to engage with it.

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