Teen Gothic

I was looking for some information on abusers in our community and the last post regarding the topic is from 5 years ago. The pandemic opened a flood gate of exposing Pedos (all caught with CP), DV and assault on both men and women in our community, all with documentation and records to back up.

With the current arrest of a popular person from a Deathrock band from the early 90s for DV with shocking brutal documentation from the police and hospital and other victims coming forward with the same, how to help keep our community safe is being raised. There are many people in our community who work behind the scenes that have been discussing and making lists of offenders over the years, if whether there should be a place to post these. Many of the offenders were/are people in the spotlight of the scene, ranging from musicians to record label. We need to protect our community. Social media is a dangerous mask that makes things seem glamorous when there is a different face underneath, which makes the truths more difficult to push through.

What is the proposed way or a place to let our community know information that will protect them? How should the abusers in our community be handled? How does the community feel about making information known? For so long people have turned the other way and ignored calls for help but things need to change. We need to do better.

I’ve read a lot of experiences over the past couple of years and have come across this issue many times. This place I guess has a reputation for gatekeeping (most notably by the mods).

An example of many is this: https://www.reddit.com/r/industrialmusic/s/3zckgFbgrB

I know it can be a frustrating thing to not feel accepted which is what the goth community in general has experienced in society itself. Do you think it’s justified to believe that this “gatekeeping” goes on here?

I recently stumbled upon this band called Life On Venus which is labelled as Dream Pop and Shoegaze. While we know that some dream pop and shoegaze can sound similar to goth, this particular band sounds a little bit too goth for dream pop standards. It literally sounds more goth than a lot of bands labelled as darkwave and ethereal wave that are posted here. I would say it's on the same level as Drab Majesty and probably more goth than mid-era Cocteau Twins which is generally accepted here without questions. Here are a few songs, what do you think?

• Camera Obscura (this one has noisy shoegaze parts, but otherwise it sounds very goth-like)
• For the Kill (this one is on the same level as Drab Majesty and almost approaches Twin Tribes)
• What Lies Beneath (this also has a noisy shoegaze section but is otherwise very similar to Drab Majesty and Twin Tribes, even the vocals are a little bit similar to Drab Majesty and would not be out of place on a goth album)
• Summer (this one has a little bit more prominent bass which would not be out of place on a goth album)

If you don't think it's goth, then what makes it different from goth music in your opinion and where is the exact border between dream pop/post-punk and goth? So far the only things I can note are the noisy sections that are pretty different from what can be generally found in goth music, the vocals are a little bit different. Otherwise it easily passes as ethereal wave IMO.

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I painted this painting of Siouxsie a while back 🙂

I’m currently trying to make a playlist of fem fronted goth bands / bands with fem vocalists, if anyone has any suggestions pls lmk !!

Hi lol. This is just a random post but I find this to be kind of funny.

I love gothic things soo much. Literature, art, music fashion, architecture, are just a few things that I like. I love to paint gothic things. I painted a portrait of Siouxsie Sioux using water colors. And last year when I graduated middle school, my dad bought me tickets for him and I to go see The Cure. It was so much fun! For my birthday he also bought me their greatest hits album on vinyl. But something interesting is that I don’t really dress gothic. Occasionally, I will. But for the most part I don’t. I don’t think even some of my friends know that I listen to goth music 😂. I just find it funny

I really want one! It’s so cool! Is it from a brand or if anywhere sells something similar.

Thanks!

I love Fields of the Nephilim so much. Their music is like magic to me; it's basically mysticism in misical form. When I listen to them, I feel something very ancient being awakened; Still, their music seems timeless to me.