Teen Gothic

Basically, although I'm really into goth music and other dark genres (I listen to a lot of metal too for example), it's basically impossible to tell just by looking at me. I only wear pink Lolita stuff and I own maybe one or two gothy outfits which I'm always reluctant to wear unless I'm actually going to a concert. Even the vinyl turntable I use to listen to SoM is pink :')

And some metalheads or goths have called me a poser or thought I was messing with them when I told them what kind of music I listen to. So I'm getting a bit self conscious, especially when it comes to dating. If you're a goth who dresses the part, would you feel ridiculous being seen outside with me?