Teen Gothic

Im dying to see some live music it’s been dead in my area as the year closes and would love to start making a list of bands to see! Any concerts you all are planning on going to soon? US and Mexico answers would be best!

been planning on making a deathrock (and maybe horror inspired) jacket, but i didn’t want to add anything else until i made a back patch, and after careful consideration, BOOM CATHOLIC SPIT

touched them up with some black paint as well the white things on the cs patch was unintentional spotting, but i decided to keep it lmao

all hail anarchostencilism and retirementfund

i made every one but the 🐦‍⬛ patch obvs will do more but this is a good amount for now

the stitching on the scarlet’s remains patch is a bit wonky imo (especially on the right side) but it’s only the 2nd one i’ve sewn so i’m giving myself obligatory grace

Hi everyone, so I'm In a bit of a pickle with my relation to goth. My sister has been asking me for goth music recommendations and I've been pretty reluctant in helping her. For context we are both in our very early 30s and I have been into goth since I was 18 while my sister never cared for it, she'd even make fun of me for my personal goth appearance up until our early 20s when she finally stopped giving me backhanded comments.

Anyway she started asking me about the music last year and I kept shrugging it off. The main reason why I'm hesitant in giving her band recs is because I don't feel that she is truly interested and the reason why I think this is because ever since she started her own twitch gaming stream, she created this alt looking persona that is heavily a mix of e-girl/e-thot. In the profile from what I saw, she wears very overly sexualized clothing while trying to do darker makeup. And she posts these sexually suggestive pics on her Instagram while tagging herself as "goth" and "goththot"

I know that she's addicted to Tiktok and I feel like this is likely the reason why she started taking an interest to goth as a way to get more popularity/views since "goth" is trendy on that platform.

I've just been pretty reluctant because of the way she presents herself with this super overly sexualized aesthetic that has played a part in a certain annoying meme we're all aware of and I just feel like she's just trying to use the scene for shallow popularity and goth is something that is personally important to me and I'm tired of this gross sexualization that we goth women get and I just have a sneaking suspicion that my sister is gonna try to market herself as a "goth thot" and I don't want to help in perpetuating this stereotype Like I mentioned prior, she never once had interest in goth and would even remark on how ugly the style was (the trad style specifically) when we were younger though i know people's opinions can change but that's beside the point.

I guess I'm just wondering if I'm being unfair in not helping. I made a mental note to myself that if she can find some goth music on her own and sticks with it, I'd know if she's truly invested or if it's just for the trend and only then would I decide if I will help her or not because I'd rather not try to help someone who's interest is solely in just getting male attention which she admittedly has usually been like. I'm not saying that liking to be sexy is bad or anything but I feel like goth women deal with enough fetishization and I'd rather not encourage it. My sister isn't a bad person but goth is special to me and the music is what helped me get through my last year of high school and my college years and I hate seeing it being treated as a trend, it's the reason why I personally am not on TikTok because of that.

I’ve been working on this goth/post punk inspired cover of Caroline, no by The Beach Boys Would like some feedback or just general thoughts on this I’m a huge beach boys fan and am wondering if anyone else is interested in something like this

In my case that was Molchat Doma and Sisters of Mercy. They're not so gothic tho, yet they could lead me to the classics such as Siouxsie

now I can cross this off my shirt bucket list.