Teen Gothic

Man sorry for a rant but I am so sick of people viewing goths as just a fuck toy. Sick of people fetishizing something I love and diminishing it to “they must be good in bed”.

Every other day I’ll be in discord with my friends and one will ask me to find him a goth girl to date when he himself is not goth. Like idk dude, how about you give a shit about the sub culture instead of treating us like novelties.

I had a coworker come up to me the other day and tell me that her son told her that you “can’t trust goth girls bc they might be super hot and good in bed but they’re probably furries”. Like where the fuck do people get this information and how do people have the audacity to say these things to people that are obviously of this subculture.

Not only is it pretty fuckin sexist but it’s just rude idk rant over

I prefer female singers over male ones so bands with female singers would be nice.

Dont come to ohio, it sucks here

I’ll go first, mine is the back/dark colors in my outfits and the sexy leather outfits I wear. I look killer hot 😉 lol

(wasn't sure on which flair to use)

I've never actually been to a club because I only turned 18 recently, but I feel like there wouldn't be much for me to do there. I would be too shy to talk to anyone, I don't like drinking, and I don't dance. And those are the things you do at clubs so I don't really know what else I would do there.

So as a socially anxious person what do I do to meet people in real life? Do I just suck it up and go to clubs a few times until I somehow gain a friend group? My city doesn't have many alternative events outside of club nights except for like, one picnic a year which is more my speed. But that's one day out of the whole year. Is there any chance of finding goths in places like comic conventions? From my experience online there is quite a bit of overlap with alternative and nerd culture but I think this might be too much of a reach. Maybe the friend tab on bumble? I'm kinda grasping at straws here. I mean shit even the last good clothing store I knew of shut down so I literally don't know where to go