Archive for October 19th, 2022

why do people always think we’re pretending?

just saw a post on a non-goth related subreddit that happened to feature a goth woman, and so many people in the comments were implying or outright saying that she's only dressing goth to be "unique" or to feel superior. and i wonder what are your thoughts on this mindset?

i personally just don't understand this train of thought at all. just because dark fashion came into the mainstream a couple years ago doesn't mean everyone who's goth is only doing it because they wanna stand out. the woman in the post wasn't even the trendy sort of goth! i legitimately love this subculture and it honestly makes me a bit mad.

of course there were also snarky comments about how she dresses that way to feel unique but dresses like every other goth 🙄 like yes, that's sort of an aspect of nearly any subculture, you guessed it! fashion is still a thing in subcultures and it doesn't discredit someone's gothness just because they dress similar to other goths.

one time i got a comment on one of my own selfies saying i should make sure i actually like being alternative instead of only liking it because it's different. still irritates me to this day tbh. why make such a hefty assumption about a stranger? i don't dress how i do just to stand out, i dress how i do because i love it! it makes me feel like myself and increases my confidence.

btw i'm not implying that goth is merely looks, this issue is just fashion-centric. anyway, rant over lmao

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Thought I’d finally share my jackets

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made some stickers for my notebook

I made some stickers by hand inspired by a post on this sub last Wednesday. There are some visible lines where the tape overlaps but ot doesn't bother me too much.

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Sisters of Mercy concert Melbourne – looking for people to go with,

Hey there, I got tickets to see sisters of Mercy on Nov 5th at the forum in Melbourne, Aus, and would love to meet some like minded people in the Melbourne goth scene to go with! Would be more than happy to meet up beforehand to hang and chill, just interested in meeting some cool peeps 😁 I'm 25 btw. Anyone interested?

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Twin Tribes – The River (Live) @ Red Moon Ale House

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The Sisters of Mercy Interview – A Lighthearted Chat Ahead of Their Australian Tour

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