Teen Gothic

So I like goth music, metal music, punk music I'm really big into diy and battle jackets and so on but when I say I want a partner thats goth and into the same things I like. people keep on saying I'm fetishizing alternative women but i don't know if this is actually fetishizing or not though. I hate people making it seem that I objectify women and that I'm misogynistic

EDIT: (This post is based off of me trying to get to know all the alternative looking people in my school which is not alot considering I live in a small town with a school of 500 students, most of them spreading rumors that I fetishize goth girls which I don't I just want somebody that shares my interests in things and has the same fashion sense, i want to do projects together like patch pants sewing and battle jackets etc.)

'The edge of her heaven' by Tors of Dartmoor, even dark lyrics .com didn't have it 🙁 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XJrArSEaIvU&pp=ygUnVGhlIGVkZ2Ugb2YgaGVyIGhlYXZlbiBUb3JzIG9mIERhcnRtb29y

Anyone know any good songs with titles that are simply a person's name? I'm putting a set together for my radio show and I thought this would make for a quite fun/silly theme. Thanks!

BTW, ones I already have played in the past are: -Severina (The Mission) -Laura (Fields of the Nephilim) -Sebastiane (Sex Gang Children) -Medea (Sex Gang Children) -Medusa (Clan of Xymox) -All the other ones by Clan of Xymox lol