Teen Gothic

Just commented about this in another post….

Some friends of mine in Seattle who are in the band Accolade, are working on a Dead Can Dance side project called Host of Seraphim!

https://www.facebook.com/people/Host-of-Seraphim-DCD-Tribute-Band/61587679333908

They haven't released any recordings yet, but you should start following now and stay tuned!

Just looking for some song recommendations since I LOVE Halloween and I would like to have more songs to play during this season.

Was able to be a part of the final leg of the creation of the Rozz Williams Documentary being made by Rozz’s close friend Nico B. Shot two interviews for it, the Rozz Williams tribute and scanned and digitized a bunch of photos for the Doc.

These are the ones I’ve posted and have been posted before so, shouldn’t be a problem.

I hope this is okay to post here. It’s a bit lengthy. I guess I’m just trying to feel out other’s opinions.

I was heavily into alt music and fashion from ages 12-22, when I got my first “real” corp job that wasn’t just piercing other kid’s noses and tongues in a shop at the mall like I’d been doing up until that point. 22-27 were really fucking rough years for me mentally. I was surrounded by a totally different type of people and felt like I was fighting a constant losing battle trying to fit in with them and do well at this job and be liked, even though I didn’t like them very much or feel like my values aligned even loosely with theirs. I’d dress the part to fit in, but I’ve always been into the same music and movies and interests, so people always approached it as a quirk, or something to be humoured.

Then the pandemic hit and things took an even more significant nosedive, to the point where I was so miserable I knew I needed to change something. I quit that job, started studying again and got help with my mental health. Now, nearly three years later, I’m starting to feel like myself again. I stopped covering up my tattoos. I started wearing makeup for fun again. Earlier this year, I went to a concert for the first time in nearly a decade. I’ve been to four more since. The joy and validation I’ve been feeling is unmatched.

But I’m getting a few weird reactions from people. My husband’s family, who’ve only known me in the last six-ish years, think I’m going through a midlife crisis (I’m only thirty, lol). One of my old co-workers made a snide comment when I bumped into her a few weeks back (“I thought you grew out of that?”). It shouldn’t (doesn’t!) matter. But it does make me wonder whether other people in the community are thinking similar thoughts, and it’s made me feel a bit embarrassed about going to clubs or other concerts in case I see people I know and they assume the same: I’m pathetically trying to recapture my youth, or I don’t really belong because I totally sold out for those years, even though they were the hardest years of my life.

Has anyone else here had this experience? Am I totally overthinking this? Does anybody even care about this kind of shit? Was my semi-social anxiety-induced panic attack at the Drab Majesty show warranted? Lol.

https://www.reddit.com/r/goth/comments/14amsdm/i_need_emotional_support_from_you_guys_im_going/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Things came to a head today and I can't do this another day. I texted my friend and he's coming tonight! It's finally about to be over! Thank you to everyone who supported me. You guys are awesome. 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

Edit: I know there's going to be some drama because he's going to be here when it happens. I know he's going to try to stop me. He's going to see me taking my stuff out of the bedroom. I'm a little worried he's going to physically attack me or try to restrain me. I'm considering calling the police to stand by but I don't want to put my friend through that. I'm just going to be firm and reiterate that it's over and I'm leaving.